Venus just moved into Pisces last week—so if you believe in divine timing, then this one feels auspicious. In this solo episode, I’m sharing my deeply personal dating philosophy through the lens of my 12th House Pisces Venus: karmic love, fate, boundaries, sex, and choosing nervous-system safety over chemistry.
I spent all of my twenties, and maybe even a little of my early thirties, looking outside myself, looking to others for guidance because I felt like I was the only one without the handbook for navigating romantic relationships. I didn’t have a framework for what a healthy relationship looked like or even how to recognize my own needs. I’ve come a long way since then.
So, this isn’t a how-to guide, this is a reflection of what I’ve learned—through therapy, astrology, my own inner compass, and a lot of lived experience. Take what resonates, leave the rest.
P.S. There’s a lot happening astrologically this week. Tomorrow brings the New Moon Eclipse in Aquarius, and we’re just days away from the Saturn–Neptune conjunction. Read what astrologer Colin Bedell shared about it all in last month’s newsletter.


